Tuesday, 28 August 2012

Why Hi There Sweden!


It’s been many years in the making but I am finally here in Sweden!

First off I think it is right to say that Mum was right. I didn’t know what it was like to be tried when I was back in New Zealand. But after 40 hours of travel on 4 planes, two buses, one train, one car and a lot of walking and sitting around airports I have a fair idea of what being tried is like.

When I arrived in Sweden we were met by a bunch of AFS volunteers and some other students. We had some more time to just sit around yet another airport while we waited for other students to arrive. Then it was time for the last bit of travel! A bus trip to the place where the arrival camp was going to be. It was a very quiet bus trip as everyone fell strait to sleep as soon as we started moving.

Camp was amazing! The setting was so wonderfully Swedish with its forest all around, red barn like buildings and the sea just a walk away. There were about 60 of us at camp from all over the world all with the same mind set for the year, Get everything we can out of it!

On Saturday we started off the day with some group activities that involved a lot of clapping! We then went on to having different classes about the rules, school and host families, Swedish culture and Swedish language. The day was ended by all the groups making up a small skit about three different things we were given and a Swedish song. Sadly my group didn’t get ABBA!

Sunday was a day of goodbyes. It was time for us all to go our separate ways to our host families all around the country. It also meant that I had a huge amount of excited nerves throughout the bus trip into Stockholm city.

Meeting my host family is probably the most exciting thing that has happened so far! They are all so lovely and nice and have made me feel at home strait away.

It is strange to think that I am finally here but also very exciting to be here!   

Friday, 10 August 2012

The First of the Goodbyes.


It doesn’t feel like you’re going anywhere until you start to say goodbye. But once the goodbyes start time goes quickly and you end up only having a week and a half to go before you say the final goodbyes and get ready to say hello to so many new people. I have never been good at goodbyes and I don’t seem to be getting any better. How are you meant to say goodbye to someone you know you will never see in your life ever again? Goodbye have a nice life. It doesn’t seem quite right.


Goodbyes come with sadness, but many come with happiness and there has never been a happy medium. You maybe sad that someone is going but you are happy that they get to go out into the world and enjoy themselves and you just end up being confused and the goodbye gets harder.


Goodbyes mean leaving people. Leaving your family and your friends. You say goodbye to them only to see them again and have to go back through your goodbyes.


Goodbyes are watching a plane from your bedroom window and realising that that with be you in a few days.
Goodbyes are giving your mum the last hug, the last kiss at the airport while holding back the tears so you both don’t start crying.
Goodbyes mean packing up your life into one suitcase and hoping it will be under 20kgs.
Goodbyes are leaving everything you are used to, everything that is normal to you behind and forgetting it and never looking back.


But most of all goodbyes are hard. They will never get easier but they will always get harder.